I like a sense of humor and wit. I like honesty even if it is brutal. Don't be a stranger. What do you like.
He will do anything I ask him to do, very submissive. We get together every few months. About 6'1", , black hair, very fair skinned, hairless except crotch. Beautiful full rounded man ass. I have a married fuck buddy who is a volunteer fireman. He he's mid 40s, nice body, killer ass like a soccer player's , average cut dick. He is fun in bed, likes to make out, likes I used to have a female friend who was a bit of a fireman groupie. She was a sucker for the image even though they invariably treated her like crap.
They'd lie about being married or having girlfriends to sleep with her. Arrogant bullies with God complexes. I guess I'd choose a fireman over a cop but it would be a losing proposition either way.
They're open to the public and you can meet firefighters that way. Also most houses work with a particular charity. Volunteer to work on that particular charity drive and they'll be very appreciative.
I have grown up with firemen as neighbors - I'm on my third fire fighter neighbor right now. Each has lots of toys; snow mobiles, speed boats, skidoos, motorcycles, etc.
I want a hot fireman too. A nice hairy one with a bubble butt that wants to be ploughed hard and deep. The kind that moans like a seal being beaten to death while he rides manmeat. He must keep his hat on while I'm riding his hot fireman mancunt. My first boyfriend was a fireman. We were together on and off for years. Love of my life, wonderful man. His station was in a suburb of LA. He was exactly what you'd fantasize about: Insanely masculine, tall and beefy, a bit of a savior type, a very dominate top I met him when I was 19, he was 32 , the type of guy who'd just build me a book shelf or refinish the deck.
When he came out, he basically was forced to retire this was right when I met him. It was very difficult for him. Being a firefighter wasn't just his job, it was his identity. R33 "Dominate" is a verb. Private detectives tend to be more well-hung, in my experience.
There's a reason they call them "private dicks. Who was the NYC area FF who posed for a calendar, then was in an amateur video made by a girl trick that featured his enormous dick? Sculpted eyebrows, I believe. R5 is completely right about the FDNY. It is a throwback to another time. It is still overwhelmingly white and male.
And the ranks are filled with many of Irish descent, who got their jobs through family connections. Just recently a judge ruled that the Department had to change its entrance exams to ensure diversity in the department.
Cloud who got canned from FDNY for illegal steroids. We all know it means lowering the physical and test-taking standards to give jobs to those who shouldn't be hired. People will die thanks to this judge's decision. I'd like to make a longer and even more inciteful post, but I have to get going to the Saturday slave auction being held down at the town square.
I hear you can get some really good deals on Negro farm hands today. I saw a fireman at a firehouse yesterday walking around lifting weights. He was built buff and tight. I have had firemen respond to my personal ads before, but what do ya know, they happened to be unattractive to me, not the buff masculine stud type. It looks like DL's favorite porn star was a DL regular, before he got drunk and invaded a fire station in Louisville.
My friend's ex-husband is a firefighter. There were some really nice ones but many were absolutely evil. Homophobic, racist, weird issues with women and they will rob your ass while your house burns down. He had drawers full of jewelry that he would sell at those cash for gold places. I considered him one of the "good ones" too.
Last I heard he had a "back injury" and is retired with full benefits at the age of Your type is so specific that it's not every day I come across people who harbor the same deathwish as you. I've fucked around with a fireman out at the beach. He was just a guy I wanted, turned out to be a fireman, his job.
He could've been a clerk in a store. Local married guy, children. We never talked about firefighting. He was just a gay guy to me, a married one in a closet not wanting anyone to know about him, thinking they never would. He'd cruise about, people would follow him, get it on. He doesn't seem to be doing it much lately. Never heard him discussed as gay.
He thought of it as working the troops. He wanted to be fire captain. He was the appeal, not the job. Most of the guys are too stupid to do anything else, including police work. Maybe one out of 20 or 30 has a truly fit body. Most are very average dumbshits. You know -- the ones with the massive, hairless pectorals, the kind you can rest your head on and say, 'Hey, Jake I'm currently fucking a volunteer FF.
So big the damn thing can't even stand erect when it's hard. Why not just buy a dalmation and walk it back and forth in front of a fire station? Wearing rubber boots wouldn't hurt. I dated a fireman in Seattle when I came out. He was a tall, beautiful, muscular, blonde Viking. Wonderful in every way. I went out with him a bunch of times - he always wanted to do me with excuses for why it was only one-way sex.
He was religious so I thought that was a reason. Well - to cut to the chase - he had a very small dick - seriously small - sort of a button. He was hugely embarrassed by it. Things didn't work out between us and I am sure he thought his small dick was the reason and I suppose it was. I have a few on my fb list and they always post right-winged shit.
I have seen firemen in my local drug store and supermarket. They are not hot at all, the ones I see anyways, the older ones always have facial hair, not my thing. Considering the rigorous physical requirements at the academy, lots of FDNY guys with six packs turn into kegs.
Bet they can't run up a flight of stairs to save someone's life. I wish I could find a buff bisexual fireman in DC. The ones who have stepped to me have been unattractive, not the stereotypically hunky muscled firefighter. I have dated several fire fighters. One was beautiful, he lived with a woman he was not married to and had a child. He called her the bitch. When he came over he was such a fucking sissy queen, begging for me to feed hims some dick and fuck him.
It was actually a turn off. Instead of kicking him out I abused him, which isn't really my thing. They usually have pick up trucks, eat white bread, use Axe body spray and have slightly smoky butt cracks FDNY union said the guys would have to be given paid time off to join gyms. The idea was abandoned.
There are a few firemen in my family. My dad was one. As some have mentioned above, fireman are now just as sleazy, angry and arrogant as cops. I can honestly say the fireman of my father's generation were probably the last to be honorable and heroic. There is a squad? Santa Monica stairs on a regular basis. Maybe one of them is attractive. The others are all weather beaten to hell. My ex wanted to be a fireman so badly, he moved from Berkeley to Seattle because he was a tiny 5'6" but burly white guy.
He eventually made it in. And yes, he had a great ass. A hot All American type guy in my neighborhood is a fireman. You do and they do, and the emotions are running high. Our behaviors and opinions can and should be controlled and directed for the overall good of the whole. Are you gonna be in trouble or what?! We both know we all work with all kinds of jackasses.
Problem is, they can act like jackasses and not worry about it. No sex in the firehouse for anyone of any gender or sexual orientation. Sexual behavior in the firehouse is a huge problem—we read about it almost every day. But then, some firefighters find out that another firefighter likes to be around their own kind and WHOA! We have a crisis! I can appreciate the relief that one would have in being able to discuss it. It creates an uncomfortable situation for you; dealing with your situation is probably difficult enough.
Come out to those you work closest with, which is what one firefighter I worked with did. He was accepted to some extent, but I also heard some negative comments and saw some negative behavior.
However, none of it was worse than the comments and behavior displayed prior to his coming out. Life in the firehouse can be pretty cruel. But realistically, the firehouse can be cruel, good leadership or not. This behavioral problem exists with men and women, so those women out there shaking their heads, listen to the things you say as well.
Think really hard about that. Remember, you may risk losing friends and colleagues. Unfortunately, your decision is a simple but complicated one. Complicated because the solution may be to live two separate lives. During your hour work shifts, you can be a straight-appearing firefighter who shares virtually no details of your private life with those you call your brothers and sisters. When off duty, you can lead a happier life as a gay person within your circle of friends.