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He has been in Dublin since June and says around 10pc of his clients are women. He previously worked with a female Romanian escort as one of Ireland's first escort couples, but now says he works alone, often touring the country to tourist spots in Kerry or Cork, renting out apartments on a short-term basis from which to work.
Sometimes a man will bring a woman but it will be his mistress, not his wife. They want to try something that they can't try as a couple. I've visited one couple 10 or more times -- they're married with a child and demand that I'm extremely discreet so that nobody knows what they're doing.
But they want to prevent their marriage from becoming boring. They pay me to help keep their marriage going," he explains. Nikolaus says single Irish women often go home with someone at the end of a night out but, he claims, that can be disappointing, if the man has had too much to drink and can't perform. Some women use his services because there are problems in their marriage. Sometimes, he adds, a woman will go to an escort because she feels she's overweight or ugly, or because she's disappointed with how her husband looks.
Twenty per cent of what I earn goes on my appearance, on the solarium, new clothes. He would prefer more female clients, but says he can't make good money working with women alone, as there aren't enough clients.
They don't want to go out on dinner dates; maybe one drink to relax themselves, but that's it. Eighty per cent of the time I hear the phrase, 'This is my first time with an escort' and, usually, women like to move slowly at first.
Nikolas says he likes the money and freedom of escorting, but sometimes hates what he does and feels that he "loses his honour". But like the other male escorts I speak to, he finishes with some cheery sales patter: When we meet, he's casually dressed and fit-looking.
But here-in lies one reason why male escorts have such a small market in Ireland. Most women have to fancy a guy to go to bed with him. I don't fancy Nikolas or any of the other male escorts that I find online.
And even if I did, I wouldn't dream of paying for the privilege. It must be the convent girl in me. Not that all former convent girls think the same way. In New Zealand, broadcaster, former politician and convent-educated Pam Corkery announced that she was going to open the world's first legal male brothel in Auckland in Her 'romance meets finance' venture was to include a beauty salon blow dries , a room penthouse blow jobs and a bar.
More than 1, men applied for jobs and Corkery declared the venture "a massive breakthrough for female sexual freedom". In one comment that made women sound like sexually demanding ladettes, she said: However, it seems the world just isn't ready for male brothels. Corkery's venture collapsed for a variety of reasons, one of which, she claimed, was resistance from the male establishment. In Nevada, the Shady Lady ranch hired a male prostitute in in an effort to drum up business. Ten days after he started work, he resigned due to a lack of female clients.
In , madam Heidi Fleiss talked about opening 'Heidi's Stud Farm' -- that too fell by the wayside, with Fleiss herself saying, "Why bother paying when you can go swinging or on Craig's List for free? After Nikolas, I go in search of an escort who works only with women and who operates as a traditional escort, accompanying women to social functions; the classic gigolo. I strike up an email correspondence with 'Patric', who says he's Italian.
His emails come via a Polish server. He tells me he came to Ireland six years ago to work as a qualified masseur. During one massage session in a top Dublin hotel, his English client, a year-old woman, offered to pay him for sex. On that day, I decided to become a male escort. It all sounds very Samantha, very 'Sex and the City', very text book.
Today, Patric says he caters for affluent, modern, high-class women who lead busy lives but want the finer things in life. I can't tell you who the clients are, I wouldn't want anything to happen to you or me. A number of places I visit specifically are Dalkey, Ranelagh and Malahide. He says women rarely want to be brought to dinner, but it's not just about sex either. Above all, he explains, a woman wants intimacy and to feel that the man focuses his attention on her. Some women treat it like a visit to the beauty salon or a massage.
Every woman is different, but most start cautiously -- they email me and ask me how much, if they can see photos. She pays me a lot of money because I spend a lot of time with her. Sometimes, I go just to play golf with her. I also have a friend, an Irish woman who used to be very rich; she helps me to meet new rich women, she arranges for me to call at exhibitions and other social functions to meet them.
I know women who've slept with their bosses to get a good promotion at work. The world is ruled by money, power and sex, and if I'm going to hell for the work I do, I certainly won't be alone," Patric says. During my trawl through Ireland's online male escorts, I come across Mike, a single, fortysomething Clare man whose naturist-style photos look distinctly out of place among the soft-porn images posted by other escorts on one site.
There he is in all his white Irish glory, posing on a rock by the sea. No Calvin Klein boxers or spray tan in sight. Next to the ultra-groomed gay boys advertising near him, he seems ordinary -- a man next door doing something that you don't expect the man next door to be doing.
I call him, posing as a potential punter. He chats easily, telling me he took up escorting 12 months ago after losing his job in a local factory. I see women from all over the country and I can survive on what I earn," he says. Most escorts I speak to assert that going to a hotel is safer for female clients, a theory I see no validity in.
Then, I'll take you up to the room, have another talk and anything you want after that. Most women dress up to the nines to meet escorts; there's really no need, sure I'll be taking the clothes off you. Of course, behind the escorts' sales techniques and the innuendo, there are deeper issues involved. It's a problem that's beginning to pop up in marriage-counselling ses-sions, as therapist Tony Moore from Relationships Ireland testifies. I had one couple where the use of a male escort by the wife was a major problem," he recalls.
She had started using a male escort and used the same one all the time, which most women do for safety reasons. Her husband was shattered, just as most women are when they find out their husband has been playing away. In the end, the woman stopped seeing the escort and she and her husband came to some understanding, but how long can such an understanding can last?
There's also a social stigma involved and women are more harshly morally judged than men. The therapist says Irish women do use male escorts, but it's not as prevalent here as in the UK -- and it's under the radar. So it's not anonymous in the way that a man going to a prostitute in a brothel is.